allow yourself to break every now and then bleed if you must, into that brokenness sit with her, you may not know how ; that’s ok she will show you what you didn’t want to see, you may not know how; that’s ok with this newfound tenderness she will help you break into spring, you may not know how; that’s ok you fell but she didn’t let you fall from grace so fall if you must, break open to make that space that space where you don’t know how to and you will dance anyways